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Yanyu 煙雨's avatar

What a range of beautiful posts! The Fran Davis piece on the silence between 'deceased' and 'beloved' is such an emotional read. That kind of unresolved family grief is so hard to put into words and she did it beautifully.

Really glad to see Ink & Heritage included too, that question of how much of who we've become was consciously chosen versus just slipped in unnoticed is something I think about a lot. Deserved spotlight.

Paul Chiddicks's avatar

Thank you so much for this thoughtful response. Fran Davis’s piece stayed with me too — that quiet space between “deceased” and “beloved” captures something so many families carry but rarely articulate.

And I really appreciate what you said about Ink & Heritage. The idea that parts of us are inherited almost by osmosis, while others are consciously shaped, is something I keep circling back to as well. It’s strange how identity can feel both deliberately built and accidentally absorbed at the same time.

Really grateful you took the time to read so closely.

Paige's avatar

Another great selection! We have similar taste.

Paul Chiddicks's avatar

Thanks @Paige 😊

Ink & Heritage's avatar

Thank you so much for recommeding one of my posts. What a lovely surprise! It is a lovely gift and truly appreciated.

Paul Chiddicks's avatar

You’re very welcome ☺️